Your relationship starts
with who you are.
Two clinical-grade assessments. One for the individual who wants to understand their relational wiring. One for the couple who's done guessing.
Individual
Personal Growth Assessment
10 dimensions · R600 · 20–30 min
Couples
Relationship Growth Assessment
8 dimensions · R600 · 30–40 min
Instant results · 100% private · Clinical-grade accuracy
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Two Paths. One Practice.
Which assessment is for you?
Personal Growth
Assessment
R600
One-time
For the person who knows something isn't working in their love life but can't quite name it. 10 dimensions of your relational self — clinically mapped, personally interpreted.
Attachment Style — your neurological blueprint
Trauma History — ACE-informed screening
Emotional Regulation — your nervous system capacity
Self-Worth & Identity — the foundation of everything
Relationship Readiness — are you actually available?
Communication Style — what's really happening
Values & Life Vision — your relational compass
Prejudices & Biases — beliefs you project onto partners
Neurodivergence Awareness — unseen friction
Change Readiness — where you actually are
20–30 min · Instant report · PDF download
Start Your Assessment →Relationship Growth
Assessment
R600
Per couple
For couples who are done guessing what's wrong. A clinical-grade X-ray of both partners across 8 clinical domains — revealing hidden mismatches and a precise 3-phase healing pathway.
Attachment Compatibility — your bonding blueprints side by side
Trauma Inventory — ACE scores and what they mean for you
ADHD & Neurodivergence — the friction nobody talks about
Values Alignment — what matches, what doesn't, what matters
Change Readiness — are both partners actually ready?
Communication Patterns — the cycle beneath the argument
Future Vision Alignment — building toward the same life?
Prejudices & Biases — beliefs you project onto each other
30–40 min · Instant report · PDF download
Start Your Assessment →Simple. Rigorous. Instant.
How it works
01
Choose your assessment
Individual or couples. Complete the multi-step clinical form at your own pace — designed to be honest, not comfortable.
02
Answer 10 clinical dimensions
From attachment wiring to trauma history to values alignment — each question is grounded in peer-reviewed research.
03
Receive your clinical report
Instantly. A full Brown University-style PDF with scores, insights, clinical flags, and a personalised treatment pathway.
Real results
What people are saying
“We were on the verge of separation. The report gave us a language to talk about what was actually broken — and a clear path to fix it.”
Thandiwe & Sipho
Johannesburg
“Worth every rand. Our couples therapist said it was the most useful intake tool she'd ever seen. We skipped months of guesswork.”
Lerato & James
Durban
“I thought I was ready for a relationship. This assessment showed me I had one dimension completely unaddressed. I'm grateful I did this before I hurt someone else.”
Kamo M.
Pretoria
“The self-worth section hit me in a way three years of therapy hadn't. Not because therapy failed — because this made it concrete and measurable.”
Yewande A.
Sandton
The cost of waiting
Most couples wait 6 years before getting help.
By then, resentment has calcified. Patterns have cemented. And you're spending R1,500–R2,000 per therapy session just figuring out what the problem is. Our assessments do that work in 30 minutes — so you can walk into any session already knowing.
Same argument, different day. You're stuck in the loop.
Disconnected but can't explain why.
You keep choosing the wrong person.
Clinical depth. Real answers.
What's inside your report
Overall Growth Score
A weighted composite score with a visual gauge and contextual interpretation.
Radar & Bar Charts
Research-grade visual charts of all dimensions for immediate pattern recognition.
Clinical Flags
High/medium/low severity flags with specific recommendations for each issue found.
3-Phase Treatment Plan
Session-by-session recommendations with pricing for a full clinical pathway.
Deep Domain Analysis
Neuroscience-informed interpretation of every dimension in plain language.
Journal Prompts & Action Items
Pre-session prompts and a concrete checklist for your next 30 days.
Transparent pricing
Simple. Worth it.
Compare that to R1,500–R2,000 per therapy session, just to figure out what to work on.
R600
- 10 clinical dimensions
- Personal growth score
- Clinical flags & insights
- 3-phase treatment pathway
- Full PDF report
- Love language + Attachment profile
R600
- 8 clinical domains
- Partner comparison charts
- Alignment percentage per domain
- ACE + ADHD screening
- Clinical risk matrix
- 3-phase couples pathway
The Complete Growth Bundle
Both assessments. One price. Start with the Individual to understand your wiring, then bring your partner into the Couples assessment with a shared language.
R1,000
R1,200
Save R200Buy individually for R600 each, or bundle both for R1,000
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The most important relationship
is the one with yourself.
Start there. Then build the relationship you actually deserve.